My parents were Lawrence Tracy Thomson and Ruth Evelyn Parker Thomson. Dad was
born on June 21, 1900 in Delaware, Ohio. He was one of three sons, Ralph, Lawrence and
George. My Mom was a Parker and I am not exactly sure of her birthday but she was born
in 1903 in Sandusky, Ohio. She was one of five children, Virginia, Ruth, James, Watson
and Lester. My parents both grew up in Ohio. My Dad, who everyone called "cotton" due
to his premature white hair, lived in Delaware.
My Mom grew up in Sandusky (for a good
web site, see http://www.sandweb.com/) where her father was a physician. Unfortunately,
I never knew Dad's father or simply don't remember him, but his mother was well known
to us kids. You have to remember that in those days, grand parents generally lived closed to
their offsprings and visited quite often. Our family was a bit unusual as Dad went to many
cities to work in retailing but we did end up living about 180 miles from Mom's parents, an
extremely lucky break for us kids as you will discover.
Mom's father was known as J.D. but to us grandkids he was always "Bampa". Bampa was
sort of reserved and didn't interact with his grandkids to well which sounds a bit like me
with my grandchildren Perhaps it was due to Bampa being a doctor and the image that he
had to portray to the public.
I do remember that he was very strict and had rules for us
grandkids when we were around him and especially in his house. Example: we could only
play in certain parts of his house and then quietly. I remember sitting at his dining room
table with my brothers and my parents and Bampa was telling up kids that, "You must
chew your food 20 times before you swallow it." Why? Well being a doctor he knew the
advantage of well chewed food, i.e. swallowing food before being chewed with the saliva
from the mouth could results in a "tummy ache" as the food may not properly digest.
Bampa was a hunter, both big game and ducks. His boys all were hunters but I believe only
ducks. I know Bampa was a hunter as I can remember trophies hanging on the walls of his
home. I am pretty sure that he had deer and I do remember a huge moose head in the
dining room, as least that is where I believe it was. But more on Bampa and my
adventures while visiting him later.
Bampa's home, which was across from Sandusky's court house, had his office in the
basement. Well, it was on the ground floor but it was considered as the basement as the
main floor was about 8-10' up from the ground. A rather wide impressive staircase led up
to the front door, which was on a large front porch with stone railings. Bampa's house was
huge, including the office floor, it must have been four stores high. The top floor was the
attic, which was used for storage. The 2nd floor was for sleeping and had many rooms.
The most unusual thing about the house was the back staircase. The was a very narrow
staircase that led down to the kitchen. We grandkids had a great time playing here as it was
almost like a "secret staircase".
Mom's mother, whose name I forget but I will never forget her, was a small lady, and I use
the term "lady" in the true sense. She was the kindest most generous person I knew. Well
after my own Mom. She always seemed to be in the background, probably due to the
nature of Bampa, a very forceful man to say the least. She was a wonderful cook and we
grandkids always enjoyed going to their home as we could gather in the kitchen during
meal preparation and taste her cooking before it was served. And the deserts were a
wonder to us - so tasteful and licking the spoons and bowls used to make the treats was
always shared by all grandkids present.
Dad's father I can not recall. I have no idea why I can't picture him as I am sure that I did
spend some time with his family. His mother was a "rock". I have never have a met a
person like her. She was, like my Mom's mother, a true lady but she didn't stay in the
background. You will learn more about her later on.